Gentle Complaints

In the midst of another endless story in which he was just a spectator, he did not sigh, nor did he glance at his phone. He found a more creative way to be heard without saying a word. It was a silent and humorous protest against the role of “nodding expert” in this relationship. Finally, the feeling found its own voice through a simple and mischievous wish. He just thought: “I want to talk about my story too.”

The melody resonates, not from a loud song, but from the depths of the mind – a common feeling that everyone has experienced when wanting to share their own passions and successes. It is a quiet, seductive hymn for anyone who loves to listen but secretly hopes to have their turn to speak.

In every relationship, there is always a speaker and a listener. Listening is a gift, an expression of love and deep respect. It is when we put aside our own world to enter the world of others, experiencing with them joy, sadness, and even trivial stories that have no beginning or end. The listener becomes a support, a strong shoulder for confidences to flow.

But even the most devoted listener has a world of their own—a world full of stories, ideas, small victories, and memorable failures. They have a project at work that just got accolades, a movie they watched and can’t stop analyzing, or a silly discovery on the way home that made them laugh to themselves. These things, however small, deserve to be shared.

This “gentle complaint” is not selfish. It is not a demand for silence. It is simply a gentle reminder of balance. It is a desire to turn a one-way conversation into a two-way street where both souls can shine and be understood. It is not born from resentment, but from love – a desire to connect more deeply by sharing our whole selves, not just our listening ears.

It was the moment he didn’t want to interrupt her story, but just wished that after the story ended, she would look at him, smile and ask: “What about you? How was your day?”

Just that simple question is enough to turn the “nodding expert” into a storyteller. And that is when the gentle complaint disappears, giving way to the full joy of being listened to and shared. Because the most beautiful love is not just listening to each other’s stories, but also writing a common story together.

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Yeah, yeah
That’s right
We talk about your work, how your boss is a jerk
We talk about your church, and your head when it hurts
We talk about the troubles you been having with your brother
About your daddy and your mother and your crazy ex-lover
We talk about your friends, and the places that you’ve been
We talk about your skin and the devils on your chin
The polish on your toes and the run in your hose
And god knows we’re gonna talk about your clothes
You know talking about you makes me smile
But every once in a while
I wanna talk about me, wanna talk about i
Wanna talk about number one, oh my, me my
What I think, what I like, what I know, what I want, what I see
I like talking about you, you, you, you usually
But occasionally, I wanna talk about me (me, me, me, me)
I wanna talk about me (me, me)
We talk about your dreams, and we talk about your schemes
Your high school team and your moisturizing cream
We talk about your nanny up in Muncie, Indiana
We talk about your grandma down in Alabama
We talk about your guys of every shape and size
The ones that you despise and the ones you idolize
We talk about your heart, ’bout your brain and your smarts
And your medical charts and when you start
You know talking about you makes me grin
But every now and then
I wanna talk about me, wanna talk about i
Wanna talk about number one, oh my, me my
What I think, what I like, what I know, what I want, what I see
I like talking about you, you, you, you usually
But occasionally, I wanna talk about me (me, me, me, me)
I wanna talk about me (me, me)
I wanna talk about me (me, me, me, me, me)
I wanna talk about me (me, me, me, me, me)
You, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you, you
I wanna talk about me
I wanna talk about me, wanna talk about i
Wanna talk about number one, oh my, me my
What I think, what I like, what I know, what I want, what I see
I like talking about you, you, you, you usually
But occasionally, I wanna talk about me (me, me, me, me)
I wanna talk about me (me, me)
I wanna talk about me (me, me, me, me)
Oh, me (me, me, me, me)

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