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Introduction

Every so often, a country song comes along that doesn’t just make you sing along — it makes you stop, think, and maybe even pick up the phone to call someone you love. Toby Keith’s “My List” is one of those songs. Released in 2002, it quickly rose to No. 1, not because it was flashy or loud, but because it spoke directly to something we all know deep down: life is too short not to spend it on the things — and people — that matter most.

The song unfolds like a conversation with yourself. On the surface, it’s about a man setting aside chores and responsibilities to spend time with family, friends, and life’s simple joys. But under that, it’s about perspective — the reminder that love and connection always outrank errands and deadlines. Toby delivers it with a calm sincerity, his voice carrying just enough grit to ground the message, but also enough warmth to make it feel like advice from a friend.

What makes “My List” so powerful is how universal it feels. Everyone has that mental checklist: things to do, bills to pay, calls to return. But Toby flips the script, showing us that maybe the “list” worth keeping is the one that includes hugging your kids, walking in the sunshine, or telling someone you love them while you still can.

Fans connected instantly, not just because of the message but because Toby made it real. He didn’t preach it; he lived it. Concertgoers would often share stories of how the song nudged them to slow down, to appreciate the moment, to make time. And in a world that only seems to move faster every year, the song’s message has only grown more relevant.

At its heart, “My List” isn’t just about crossing things off — it’s about adding what truly matters on. It’s a gentle nudge, wrapped in melody, that reminds us all to pause and cherish the things we’d regret leaving undone.

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Lyrics

Under an old brass paperweight
Is my list of things to do today
Go to the bank and the hardware store
Put a new lock on the cellar door
I cross ’em off as I get ’em done
But when the sun is settled
There’s still more than a few things left
I haven’t got to yet
Go for a walk, say a little prayer
Take a deep breath of mountain air
Put on my glove and play some catch
It’s time that I make time for that
Wade the shore and cast a line
Look up an old lost friend of mine
Sit on the porch and give my girl a kiss
Start livin’, that’s the next thing on my list
Wouldn’t change the course of fate
The cutting the grass just had to wait
‘Cause I’ve got more important things
Like pushin’ my kid on the backyard swing
I won’t break my back for a million bucks
I can’t take to my grave
So why put off for tomorrow
What I could get done today
Like go for a walk, say a little prayer
Take a deep breath of mountain air
Put on my glove and play some catch
It’s time that I make time for that
Wade the shore, cast a line
Look up an old lost friend of mine
Sit on the porch and give my girl a kiss
Start livin’, that’s the next thing on my list
Raise a little hell, laugh ’til it hurts
Put an extra five in the plate at church
Call up my folks just to chat
It’s time that I make time for that
Stay up late, and oversleep
Show her what she means to me
Catch up on all the things I’ve always missed
Just start livin’, that’s the next thing on my list
Under an old brass paperweight
Is my list of things to do today

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