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Introduction

There are songs that make you tap your feet. There are songs that get stuck in your head.
And then there are songs like this one — that sit quietly beside you and hold your heart for a while.

“Cryin’ for Me (Wayman’s Song)” isn’t just a tribute. It’s a deeply personal goodbye.

Written after the passing of Toby Keith’s close friend Wayman Tisdale — a former NBA star turned jazz musician — the song feels like an open letter that was never meant for the radio. It’s soft-spoken, but powerful. There’s no anger, no bitterness. Just love, sorrow, and the kind of grief that comes from losing someone who left too soon, but lived well.

The lyrics are honest and unpolished, as if Toby is speaking directly to his friend:
“I’m not cryin’ ‘cause I feel so sorry for you. I’m cryin’ for me.”

What really brings the song to life is the music itself — especially with Marcus Miller on bass and Dave Koz’s soulful saxophone wrapping around Toby’s voice like a warm memory. The blend of country and jazz doesn’t just work — it feels right. It captures the spirit of Wayman, who bridged those worlds so effortlessly in his own life.

If you’ve ever lost someone who made the room brighter just by walking in — you’ll understand this song immediately. It doesn’t shout its pain. It sits with it. Honors it. And lets it breathe.

It reminds us: sometimes the best way to say “I love you” is simply to say, “I miss you.”

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Lyrics

Sorry you miss me
I’ll get back with you as soon as I can
Thank you, God bless
Got the news on Friday mornin’
But a tear I couldn’t find
You showed me how I’m supposed to live
And now you showed me how to die
I was lost ’til Sunday mornin’
I woke up to face my fear
While writin’ you this goodbye song
I found a tear
I’m gonna miss that smile
I’m gonna miss you, my friend
Even though it hurts the way it ended up, I’d do it all again
So play it sweet in heaven
‘Cause that’s right where you want to be
I’m not cryin’ ’cause I feel so sorry for you
I’m cryin’ for me
I got up and dialed your number
And your voice came on the line, with that old familiar message
I’d heard a thousand times, it just said
“Sorry that I missed you, leave a message and God bless”
I know you’d think I’m crazy, but I had to hear your voice again
I’m gonna miss that smile
I’m gonna miss you, my friend
Even though it hurts the way it ended up, I’d do it all again
So play it sweet in heaven
‘Cause that’s right where you want to be
I’m not cryin’ ’cause I feel so sorry for you
I’m cryin’ for me
So play your upside down, left-handed, backwards bass guitar
And I’ll see you on the other side, superstar
I’m gonna miss that smile
I’m gonna miss you, my friend
Even though it hurts the way it ended up, I’d do it all again
So play it sweet in heaven
‘Cause that’s right where you want to be
I’m not cryin’ ’cause I feel so sorry for you
I’m cryin’ for me
I’m still cryin’
I’m cryin’ for me, oh
I’m still cryin’

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